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Thursday, November 5, 2020

#30 Days of Gratitude - Day 10: Food

When my mother got married, she didn't know how to cook. Better Homes & Gardens and Betty Crocker cookbooks were well-used as I was growing up. Mom was determined that her daughters knew how to cook. Back in the day before instant pudding, I stood on a stepstool and stirred so it wouldn't stick. I learned to make  white sauce the same way because, according to Mom, some vegetables (like peas, parsnips, and turnips) tasted better in a sauce. About a year ago, my son the chef informed me that what I knew as a "white sauce" was really bĂ©chamel. 

Mom cooked according to a recipe. No winging it for her, no experimentation. Not me. I guess learning how to cook simple things at a young age gave me the courage to try different ingredients. I took cooking classes in ethnic foods, like Mexican, German, and Chinese. 

When my kids were nine or ten, my sister gave them Betty Crocker Junior cookbooks. They became good cooks at a young age. Now, my daughter is passing that on to her children. This spring break--the one where no one could go anywhere--her kids (ages 10 and 13) "visited" a different country each day and took turns preparing an appropriate dish. My son has been a chef since he graduated college. I can't wait to see what he teaches his kids when they're a little older. 

In her later years, Mom found shortcuts for totally delicious foods. Like her streusel coffee cake. 


 

Streusel Coffee Cake

 1 package yellow cake mix

1/4 cup firm butter

1 cup brown sugar (packed)

3/4 cup chopped walnuts (optional)

3 eggs

1 1/2 cups (12 oz) sour cream

 Heat oven to 350°. Spray a 13x9x2 baking pan with non-stick cooking spray (or grease and flour the pan). Measure 2/3 cup dry cake mix into small bowl. Cut in butter until crumbly. Mix in brown sugar and walnuts. This will be the topping. Set aside.

 In a large bowl, beat eggs lightly with fork; stir in sour cream. Blend in remaining dry cake mix, scraping bowl often. (Batter will be thick and slightly lumpy.) Pour half of the batter into prepared pan. Sprinkle half the topping over the batter. Spoon and gently spread remaining batter in pan, top with remaining topping mix. Bake 40-45 minutes at 350°.


I'm grateful my mother insisted I learn to cook. Not only could I feed my family, I could pass on my own love of cooking to my children, as they are passing it on to theirs.


Wednesday, November 4, 2020

#IWSG: Why I Write What I Write and Release Day for Well of Ash

 


Happy Insecure Writer's Support Group Day. IWSG is the brainchild of Ninja Captain Alex J. Cavanaugh.


Purpose: To share and encourage. Writers can express doubts and concerns without fear of appearing foolish or weak. Those who have been through the fire can offer assistance and guidance. It’s a safe haven for insecure writers of all kinds! Thanks, Alex, for starting this group and keeping it going. We are rockin' the neurotic writing world!

The awesome co-hosts for the November 4 posting of the IWSG are  Jemi Fraser, Kim Lajevardi, L.G Keltner, Tyrean Martinson, and Rachna Chhabria! 

November's optional question is "Why do you write what you write?"

I write science fiction romance, romantic suspense, and cozy mysteries. I write romance because I believe in happy ever after. Having been married for 48 years (on Thanksgiving Day), I know that any time two people live together there are bound to be disagreements, compromise, good times and difficult ones. The honeymoon does not go on forever. In the end, two people have to work together for that happy ever after. It is possible.

I write science fiction because I believe humans will travel farther into space than we have so far. I believe we are not the only sentient beings in this universe. We will meet them. Hopefully, we will treat them better than we treat our own "aliens" (those who are different from us). I hope we will treat them with respect. Another hope is that they will treat us with respect.

In all my books, you will find elements of mystery and suspense. I write what I enjoy reading. I also love series. Watching the characters as they evolve is fun as both a reader and a writer. 

One of the series I've enjoyed reading is Elle Cardy's (our own Lynda Young) Wielder's Storm series. So, when I learned she had a new book coming out, I was thrilled to be ask to share a little bit about Well of Ash. Isn't that a fantastic cover? Best of all, today is Release Day.



No one knows who built the Great Wells across the world or why. To linger near makes the skin crawl and the mind drift in nightmares. Yet this one calls to Ash in whispers that pull her closer. Soon she’s caught in a mystery that can kill. She must find the answers before she loses her sanity and her life.

If you like dragons, magic, and a fierce heroine with a wounded heart, then you’ll love Well of Ash, a YA Fantasy novella by Elle Cardy. Available now as an ebook and paperback on Amazon. OR, for a limited time, pick up a free copy when you join Elle’s VIP newsletter club.
 


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#30 Days of Gratitude - Day Nine: Favorite Thing About Me

 That is a hard question. I'm a reader. I've read as long as I can remember. When I was in fourth or fifth grade, a teacher who caught me reading when I was supposed to be doing school work (which was done, though she didn't ask me) said, "Quit wasting your time reading." 

As a former teacher, I'm appalled that anyone would tell a reader to stop reading. Because I'm such an avid reader, I often can't find what I want to read. What can I do about that? 

Write my own stories.

And that's what I've done.



Tuesday, November 3, 2020

#30 Days of Gratitude - Day Eight: Job

 For several years I was a teacher of elementary school--full time or as a substitute. I enjoyed helping kids learn or how to learn. The best part was watching their eyes light up. "I found it." Those words were music to my ears. Unfortunately, not all kids wanted to learn. Or they never experienced that "Eureka!" moment. 

I always read aloud to my students, even the 6th graders (when that grade was elementary school). The Hobbit, A Wrinkle in Time. I hoped the kids looked for the next books in the series. If I did nothing more than helping kids enjoy reading, I consider it a success.

When our kids were young, I was fortunate to be a stay-at-home mom. But when Hubs' job was downsized or terminated, I was able to find temporary jobs--an inventory clerk for a flute store with a thriving mail order business (I once talked to James Galway <squeal>); data entry clerk for a Girl Scout council; an administrative assistant in an oil and gas exploration company. The last job lasted four years until I retired. All of those "temporary" jobs came about because of my computer skills. Those skills were developed by writing fiction. When I look back at the variety I'm grateful for the experiences.

Retirement has given me time to write, for which I am very grateful. 


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Monday, November 2, 2020

#30 Days of Gratitude - Day Seven: Pets

Over the years, we opened our home to three dogs, Whiskey, Bear, and Cody. I'm grateful for the joy those pets have brought into our lives.

Whiskey was my first dog. A boy in the 6th grade class I taught brought him in to school at lunchtime. His intent was to take the puppy around to the classrooms and tell the kids if they wanted a puppy, they had to bring a note from their parent. My friend (the one I wrote about on Friday, the one who texts) saw the puppy and said "That puppy is for Mrs. Burton." The janitor found a box and some old towels and the puppy stayed in my room for the rest of the day. By the way, all the puppies in the litter were named after alcohol.

When my husband came home from work, he said "I thought we were going to wait until school was out." We-ell, that was the plan. LOL I couldn't resist that cute, red dog.

Whiskey, we kept the name, lived with us for over 16 years. Our kids grew up with him. He was a great companion.

Our next dog was Bear, a black Lab mix. Stubborn and a runner. I wanted to name him Max but was outvoted.  When I started writing, he lay on my feet under my desk. When Hubs had to go out of town on business, Bear was a fierce defender. He lived with us for 15 years.

After 31 years of dogs, we decided that was enough. Then Son's friend had to give up one of his pets. Cody spent 2 years in the boys' college apartment, so Son knew Cody well and took her. After three years, circumstances necessitated he give up the dog, and we took her. What a well-behaved pet. She came when called. LOL She lived her last 4 years with us. I cried more for her when she was gone than I did for the other two dogs. 




So, will we get another pet? I've loved the freedom of being able to leave on vacation without having to make arrangements for the dog. Yet, I miss the companionship. Pets bring so much to our lives. That wagging tail and cheerful bark when I walked in the house always made me smile. I think another dog might be in our future.

 

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Sunday, November 1, 2020

#30 Days of Gratitude - Day Six: Home

 Home is where we are.

Some people live all their adult lives in the same house. Their children have a place they call home, meaning where they grew up. 

When Hubs' job required it, we moved. The shortest time in one house was three years, the longest fourteen, but most were around six years. Long enough to set down roots and make friends, only to be uprooted and transplanted elsewhere.

With retirement comes freedom. We didn't have to move anymore. After being apart from our kids, I wanted to be close to them. Eight years ago, we started looking for our new home, close to our only grandchildren. After not finding what we both wanted in a house, we decided to build. Others have told horror tales, I can only say it was a great experience. We compromised or our budget would've been through the roof. We downsized and got what we needed plus a couple of "luxuries" we wanted. 

Seven years ago, we moved in. After the movers left, I sat down and for the first time in a new house I thought this is home.

I'm so grateful.


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Saturday, October 31, 2020

#30 Days of Gratitude - Day Five: Special Events

 What special events are in your lives? 

The special events in mine revolve (or used to before covid) around my grandkids. Dance recitals, sports games, birthdays, Christmas pageants, Girl/Boy Scout advancements. 

Hubs and I sometimes reminisce about our own childhoods. Neither of us remember our parents attending our games or events. Parents didn't do that back in the "old" days. Graduations, of course. But rarely, if ever, anything else. So we made certain we were involved in our kids' activities. Whether it was as a Girl Scout leader, Boy Scout parent committee, Odyssey of the Mind coach, religious education teacher, baseball coach, we wanted to be involved. 

Now, as grandparents, we get to enjoy the kids' activities without the responsibilities. LOL We get to sit in the stands or audience and watch during those special events. I'm so grateful we live close enough to do that.

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